Nothing in Life is Free
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Thank you Ron, of Tundra Spirits Siberian Husky Rescue
For MY Bully
01/17/2004

Nothing In Life Is Free

Does your dog: Get on the furniture and refuse to get off? Nudge your hand, insisting
on being petted or played with? Refuse to come when called? Defend its food bowl or
toys from you?

"Nothing in life is free" can help. "Nothing in life is free" is not a magic pill that will solve
a specific behavior problem; rather it’s a way of living with your dog that will help it
behave better because it trusts and accepts you as its leader and is confident knowing
its place in your family

.How To Practice "Nothing In Life Is Free:"Using positive reinforcement methods, teach
your dog a few commands and/or tricks. "Sit," "Down" and "Stay" are useful
commands and "Shake," "Speak" and "Rollover" are fun tricks to teach your dog.
Once your dog knows a few commands, you can begin to practice "nothing in life is
free." Before you give your dog anything (food, a treat, a walk, a pat on the head) it
must first perform one of the commands it has learned. For example:
YOU:         YOUR DOG:
Put your dog’s leash on to go for a walk         Must sit until you’ve put the leash on
Feed your dog         Must lie down and stay until you’ve put the bowl down
Play a game of fetch after work         Must sit and shake hands each time you throw the
toy
Rub your dog’s belly while watching TV         Must lie down and rollover before being
petted

·        Once you’ve given the command, don’t give your dog what it wants until it does
what you want. If it refuses to perform the command, walk away, come back a few
minutes later and start again. If your dog refuses to obey the command, be patient and
remember that eventually it will have to obey your command in order to get what it
wants. ·       
Make sure your dog knows the command well and understands what you want before
you begin practicing "nothing in life is free." The Benefits Of This Technique ·        Most
dogs assume a neutral or submissive role toward people, but some dogs will challenge
their owners for dominance. Requiring a dominant dog to work for everything it wants is
a safe and non-confrontational way to establish control. ·

Dogs who may never display aggressive behavior such as growling, snarling, or
snapping, may still manage to manipulate you. These dogs may display affectionate,
though "pushy" behavior, such as nudging your hand to be petted or "worming" its way
on to the furniture in order to be close to you. This technique gently reminds the "pushy"
dog that it must abide by your rules. ·        

Obeying commands helps build a fearful dog’s confidence; having a strong leader and
knowing its place in the hierarchy helps to make the submissive dog feel more secure.
Why This Technique WorksAnimals that live in groups, like dogs, establish a social
structure within the group called a dominance hierarchy. This dominance hierarchy
serves to maintain order, reduce conflict and promote cooperation among pack
members.

In order for your home to be a safe and happy place for pets and people, it’s best that
the humans in the household assume the highest positions in the dominance hierarchy.
Practicing "nothing in life is free" effectively and gently communicates to your dog that
its position in the hierarchy is subordinate to yours. From your dog’s point of view,
children also have a place in this hierarchy. Because children are small and can get
down on the dog’s level to play, dogs often consider them to be playmates, rather than
superiors. With the supervision of an adult, it’s a good idea to encourage children in
the household (aged eight and over) to also practice "nothing in life is free" with your
dog.

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